How to Write a Will in New York (Requirements & Steps)

New York sets out what a valid will requires, and the requirements are formal. Not complicated, but unforgiving, because a will is proved after the only person who can explain it has died. Here is what the law asks for and where people go wrong.

What EPTL 3-2.1 requires

Five things.

It must be in writing. A recording, a video, or a text message is not a will.

You must sign at the end. Anything appearing after your signature may not be given effect, which is why margins and afterthoughts cause problems.

You must be at least eighteen and of sound mind.

Two attesting witnesses. You sign in front of them, or acknowledge to them that the signature is yours.

You must publish it. That means telling the witnesses, out loud, that the document is your will. It is one sentence and it is a legal requirement.

The witnesses then sign, and they must do so within thirty days of one another.

Choosing witnesses properly

Do not use beneficiaries. New York has a rule that can void a gift to an attesting witness in certain circumstances, so the person you are leaving something to is the wrong person to witness.

Pick people likely to outlive you and remain findable. Younger rather than older, settled rather than transient. Record their full names and addresses with the will.

Add the self-proving affidavit

Not required for validity, and you want it anyway. Under SCPA 1406 the witnesses swear an affidavit stating what they would otherwise have to testify to in court, and the Surrogate’s Court can accept it instead of calling them.

This is the notarized part of a will signing. The will itself is not notarized. See the full explanation.

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What actually goes in a will

Your executor, plus a successor in case the first cannot serve. Choose someone organised and available rather than the eldest child by default.

A guardian for minor children, and a successor. Without this the court decides, without your input.

Specific bequests, if any, described precisely enough to identify.

The residuary clause, covering everything not otherwise given. This is the most important paragraph in the document, because it catches what you forgot and what you acquired after signing.

Provisions for a beneficiary who dies before you, so a gift does not lapse into an argument.

Whether the executor serves without a bond.

What a will does not control

This is where plans quietly fail. A will governs only what passes through your estate.

Property held jointly with right of survivorship goes to the surviving owner. Payable on death accounts go to the named beneficiary. Life insurance and retirement accounts go to whoever is on the designation form. Assets in a living trust pass under the trust.

A beneficiary designation beats your will. Leaving everything to your children in a will while a retirement account still names a former spouse means the former spouse takes that account. Review the designations at the same time you sign the will.

Where we fit, and where we do not

We are notaries, not attorneys. We cannot draft your will, tell you what it should say, or advise whether it is valid. What we do is attend the signing so it is executed correctly, coordinate witnesses, and take the witnesses’ sworn affidavit.

We do that in person, on paper. New York State Technology Law § 307 lists wills among documents excluded from electronic signature, so we take the cautious route rather than signing them online. We travel to homes, offices, hospitals and rehabilitation facilities across the five boroughs, including evenings and weekends. This is our practice, not legal advice.

For anything beyond execution, use an estate attorney. A will is cheap to make and expensive to litigate.

After it is signed

Keep the original somewhere findable and tell your executor where. The Surrogate’s Court wants the original, and a missing one raises a presumption that it was destroyed deliberately, which your family then has to overcome.

Review it after a marriage, a divorce, a birth, a death, a property purchase or a move to another state. Do not amend it by crossing things out, because handwritten changes can invalidate provisions. Use a codicil or a new will.

Frequently asked questions

Do I need a lawyer to write a will in New York?

Not legally, but execution is formal and mistakes surface when you cannot fix them. Most people should use one.

Is a handwritten will valid?

Holographic wills are recognized only in narrow circumstances. Assume the formal requirements apply.

Can my spouse be a witness?

A spouse is usually a beneficiary, which is exactly who you should not use.

Can a will be signed online?

We sign wills in person. See what can be notarized online.

How often should I update it?

After any major life change, and otherwise every few years.

Executors, and choosing one properly

The default choice is the eldest child, and it is frequently the wrong one. What the role actually needs is somebody organised, available, financially literate, and able to stay calm with relatives who disagree.

They will be gathering assets, paying debts and taxes, dealing with the Surrogate’s Court, and accounting to beneficiaries. Geography matters, because an executor two thousand miles away handles a Queens co-op sale badly. Name a successor, because people decline, move, fall ill, or die first.

You can also state whether the executor serves without a bond, which saves the estate money, and whether they may be compensated.

Guardians for minor children

If you have children under eighteen, this is often the most important paragraph in the document, and the one people put off because the conversation is uncomfortable.

Without a nomination, the court decides, weighing the child’s best interests without your view. Name a guardian and a successor, and speak to them first rather than surprising them. Consider separately who manages money for the child, because the best person to raise a child is not always the best person to handle a inheritance, and the two roles can be split.

Storing it, and telling someone

The Surrogate’s Court wants the original. If only a copy can be found, New York applies a presumption that the will was destroyed with the intention of revoking it, and the family has to overcome that.

So keep the original somewhere safe and findable, and tell your executor exactly where. A safe deposit box in the decedent’s sole name can be awkward to open at the wrong moment, so think about access rather than only security. Some people file the original with the Surrogate’s Court for safekeeping during their lifetime, which removes the problem entirely.